Inner beauty

We see it in all the movies and TV shows, this outer beauty. 

Sure someone is beautiful on the outside but if you could see the inside, you might think twice about asking her/him out. 

While there could be what seems like an ordinary girl/guy but if you could see the inside, you would see a beauty beyond anything you could have ever imagined.

Outer beauty is nice, but Inner beauty is something special. 

You don't always see the heart of someone if you are blinded by the outer beauty, at least not until it is too late and you are going out or are married to that person do you see how they really tick.

But by then it is far to late to undo it all!

I'm not saying that outer beauty is wrong or that it is a terrible thing to have.

What I'm saying is, you should not go by appearances but by what the person is really like. 

Another words get to know him/her as a person first.    

Sometimes you meet someone who is beautiful on the outside and on the inside. 

But you have to look really hard or wait for the right person to come along, or just stop searching  for mr/miss right.

Inner beauty can't be found in the magazines and can't always be seen on TV.

True inner beauty shines through and is more beautiful/handsome then the top model.

Inner beauty is found in the heart. It is a rare quality that not everybody has but it is so special and important to have a happy relationship or marriage.

Because when the inner beauty shines out of a person it is a remarkably beautiful and amazing sight.

Don't go by outer looks or by what is so called acceptable to other people around and look for someone who has true inner beauty;

Because inner beauty comes from the heart of the person     

The Truest Beauty and a Beauty that never fails is Inner Beauty 

Best friends

So I have three Best friends. ( And one cousin that is pretty much a best friend ) 

Spaztastic (The girl who made the blog Spaztastic)

Happy-Emo-Bunnies (The girl who made the blog)

From the Cloom (The girl who made the blog)

And finally Talitha

I have known Spaztastic Aka Ashley, since I was six days old ( yeah I know, long time, right! ) Well anyways she has always been my first best friend..... Because she was my first friend ( If you know what I mean? ) Her family is like a second family to me. 

I'm going on seven years of knowing Happy-Emo-Bunnies Aka Mimi. She and I met at school and were immediately best friends. And I'm hoping that it stays that way. We have always been very close... though you know that not all friendships are perfect.

I have known From the Cloom Aka Hannah all my life ( because she is my cousin ) We are very close since we live across the street from each-other. Hannah is the reason why I made (Space-Out-Autumn) We share the love of reading and writing. Its really weird, Hannah and I used to be worst enemies because we fought over who got more time with our grandma (which truthfully she did) But we have sorted it all out now.

I have known Talitha for six years though we only became friends in the last three years. We went to school together and did Irish Dance together for six years. We have recently become better and closer friends. We bonded in Irish dance because we were put together as partners. We now have a very good friendship.

 To me it's very hard to figure out which are your best friends and which are just friends or acquaintances.

Here is how I separate the three choices; 

Best Friend;  To me a best friend is a shoulder to cry on and one who is not afraid to tell you "you're being stupid" because they usually can tell when you are.      

Friend; Talks to you when you need someone to talk to you. Does not know what to expect when you're being stupid because they don't know you very well.

Acquaintance; Hangs out with you and talks with you when there is no one else to talk to or their to shy to talk to anyone else or you are the only person that they know.

My best friends are very special to me, because they know when I need to talk to someone and they are willing to do almost anything to get me to smile or feel better.

I hope Everyone has very close, best friends like I do! 

Because a Best friend is closer (sometimes) then family.  

Some people come into our lives and quickly go 

 Some stay awhile and leave footprints on our hearts

And we are never the same!

Best friends are the people who leave footprints on our hearts!

Remembering Grandpa

It's been a long time since I thought of her. It seems to get farther and more distant in my memory as I begin to get older.

I now realize that it has been six years since my grandpa died and that it is understandable that I sometimes have a hard time remembering him. 

I remember at his memorial service and funeral my mom sang the song "If you can see me now"

I remember feeling like he is up in heaven rejoicing 

because now he can walk normally and he is in no more pain. 

Let me tell you a bit about my grandpa.

My grandpa was one of the most amazing people in the whole world.

He was the strong silent type but always had a joking side.

He was one of my best friends.

Every-time I would go over to his and grandma's house I would always ask him to read me the Magic school bus or Clifford the big red dog. 

He would always act like he was falling asleep when he was reading the magic school bus, 

and when he read Clifford the big red dog he would always call him... Clifford the big blue doggie instead.

And every-time we would ask him how old he was he would always say "I'm eleventy seven" instead of 77.

He had so many stories from his childhood that were so interesting as well as hilarious.

He would go to the store and buy peanuts to feed to the squirrels...

(Of  course that was before they were evil!)   

But what I will always admire him for is

He was in so much pain yet he never let anyone see it, or complained.

He was my hero.

And I will always remember my grandpa. Though it may be deep down, or hard to recall as I get older!

In loving memory of Grandpa Barr